The Math of Mercy

The Math of Mercy is a powerful sermon by Dr. Steve Stewart, Senior Pastor of Bethesda Baptist Church in Ellerslie, Georgia, based on Matthew 18:21-35. Through Christ’s teaching on forgiveness, mercy, and grace, believers are challenged to examine whether they have truly forgiven others from their hearts as God has forgiven them.

As Pastor Steve taught from the Word of God, one illustration stood out to me. He described a bell ringer pulling the rope of a church bell. When the rope is first pulled, the bell rings loudly. Even after the bell ringer lets go, the bell continues to swing and the sound gradually fades until it eventually becomes silent. Forgiveness often works the same way. We may choose to forgive immediately, but the hurt, memories, and emotions can continue to echo for a season before they finally fade away.

This message impacted me personally because it reminded me how thankful I am that the Lord has taught me to forgive completely. Over the years, God has allowed me to experience difficult situations that could have easily led to bitterness, resentment, or anger. Instead, He showed me the freedom that comes through forgiveness. At the same time, this sermon challenged me to consider whether I have fully forgotten some of those hurts or whether there are still faint echoes of the bell ringing in my heart.

I also reflected on something my doctors have mentioned for years. They are often surprised that I do not require medication and that my blood pressure consistently remains where it should be. Many people my age take medication for one condition or another, and while good health is ultimately a blessing from God, I cannot help but believe there is peace that comes from releasing burdens rather than carrying them. Bitterness weighs us down, but forgiveness brings freedom.

One of the most sobering truths from this message comes from Matthew 18:35 (KJV), where Jesus warns of the consequences of refusing to forgive:

“So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.”

Matthew 18:35 (KJV)

This verse reminds us that biblical forgiveness is not merely about saying the words “I forgive you.” True forgiveness comes from the heart. It is a decision to release the debt, extend grace, and trust God with the outcome. While the bell may continue to ring for a time, God’s desire is that the sound eventually fades away completely.

This message served as a powerful reminder that forgiveness is not only an act of obedience but also a pathway to peace, freedom, and spiritual growth. I am grateful for the faithful preaching of God’s Word and for the conviction that comes when Scripture challenges us to examine our hearts.